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Small talk before meeting someone, yes or no?

CoastalCafe12 Nov 2025, 09:40

A little goes a long way for me too, enough to know there's something worth turning up for.

Harlow8805 Feb 2026, 17:04

Curious what people think. I quite like a bit of back and forth beforehand so it's not two total strangers turning up, but I know some people prefer to keep messaging short and just meet.

NorthernLight06 Feb 2026, 17:04

A little goes a long way for me. Enough to know we can hold a conversation, not so much it becomes the whole thing.

RiverAndRoad07 Feb 2026, 17:04

Depends on the person honestly. Some conversations flow and some feel like pulling teeth, and that tells you plenty before you've even met.

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