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Best way to arrange a first meet without it feeling awkward

Sam19823826 Aug 2026, 11:29

Genuine question, always feel a bit weird on the first message. What do you all actually say?

Dean8827 Aug 2026, 21:24

just be normal about it, ask whereabouts they are and go from there

Mark_x4029 Aug 2026, 06:53

i always just say hi and ask if they're free that day, keeps it simple

Rob888129 Aug 2026, 17:24

agree with the above, overthinking it makes it weirder than it needs to be

Brianman6001 Sept 2026, 05:56

yeah honestly the first message is the easy bit, it's turning up on time that matters more

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